So you want to be an engineering manager
This is a summary of hundreds of conversations I've had with perspective engineering managers about what life looks like as a manager- the purpose and responsibilities of the role, but more importantly- what you actually do everyday.

I chat with a lot of younger engineers about their future, career goals, and what kind of work makes them happy. By far, the most frequent conversation I have is about engineering management- what it involves, how to get into it, and whether it's a good fit for them.
I've also worked with people who've been thrown into management without any real guidance or preparation. This can be a really hard situation, because you absolutely need to be able to ask for help, but it can be terrifying as a new manager to admit that you're struggling.
I thought I'd spend some time summarizing the conversations I often have with perspective managers of what I think life as an effective engineering manager looks like. I'll start with the high level purpose, and then we'll get in to the details of what day-to-day activities look like.